Widow Events

 

Religion that God our Father finds pure and faultless, is this: take care of the widows in their distress.  James 1:27

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2026 WIDOW DINNER EVENTS

- see photos from past events in our photo gallery below -                               

Lemonade & Laughter

Thursday, July 23rd
Lunch 11:00am - 1:00pm
Dinner 5:30pm - 7:30pm                                                                           

Asbury Church, Tulsa, OK
Community Life Center (CLC)
6767 South Mingo Road, Tulsa, OK 74133

RSVP Links will open June 23rd
                                                                                                                                               

Click Here for RSVP Link for DINNER 

Guest Speaker: Christian Comedian, Lee Colee'

"Recalculating Your Mindset: The GPS of Life"

Lee draws on a rich career in show business and personal life experiences to teach three practical steps to "recalculate" your mindset.  Using the familiar GPS cue, that wry, steady voice that says “recalculating” when we take an unexpected turn.  

Lee turns life’s detours into material for humor, hope, and growth. Imagine that recalculating voice as a comedian who laughs with you through unexpected detours while still steering you toward your destination: joy and purpose. 

With sharp wit, warm honesty, and her signature fedora, Lee invites us to embrace unexpected turns, find laughter in the messy middle, and confidently move forward.

Guest Musician:  Marilyn Buland with Special Guest Bob Baker

Direct event questions to:  Melissa@balconywomen.com

 

Be YOU tiful Masterpiece

Date Coming Soon
Lunch 11:00am - 1:00pm
Dinner 5:30pm - 7:30pm                                                                           

Asbury Church, Tulsa, OK
Community Life Center (CLC)
6767 South Mingo Road, Tulsa, OK 74133

                                                                                                         
Direct event questions to:  Melissa@balconywomen.com

 

WIDOW FELLOWSHIP GROUP

REMINDER!!  WE WILL NOT MEET IN FEBRUAY OR JULY.  DINNER EVENTS SERVE AS OUR MONTHLY MEETING.

We would love for you to join us!  We meet each month at Asbury Church, 6767 South Mingo Road, Tulsa, OK 74133.  If you attend our small groups and wish to join our GroupMe, please contact Melissa Phenicie for the invitation link.  We use the GroupMe App to communicate with our group.

Contact Melissa Phenicie at melissa@balconywomen.com if you have any questions or wish to attend.

3rd Monday of each month
1-2PM
Room 2821 

You can always text Melissa at 918.640.7573 if you can't find the room. 

WIDOW EVENT PHOTO GALLERY LINKS:

Valentine's 2026 

Valentine's 2026 (2)

Lemonade & Laughter 2025

Valentine's 2025

Lemonade & Laughter 2024

Valentine's 2024

Lemonade & Laughter 2023

Valentine's 2023

Lemonade & Laughter 2022

Valentine's 2022

Lemonade & Laughter 2021

Valentine's 2021

Lemonade & Laughter 2020

Valentine's 2020

Lemonade & Laughter 2019

Valentine's 2019

Lemonade & Laughter 2018

Valentine's 2018

Lemonade & Laughter 2017

 

WIDOW DINNER VIDEO TESTIMONY 

The Bible commands us to “plead for the widow”.  Too often, the perception is that once a funeral is over and a widow begins to appear to have regained normality in her life no need exists for her care.  Nothing can be further from the truth.  Being a widow does not have to mean being alone.

Widows are hurting deeply one year, two years and even ten years plus.  In our Widow Fellowship Groups, there is no directing, counseling, steering toward a predetermined goal, no manipulation, no fixing — just a complete reliance on God to work.

“No one can comfort a widow like another widow. When we see another woman enter this experience…we want to comfort her.” - Miriam Neff

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Questions?  Visit our Get In Touch page.