Widow Events


Religion that God our Father finds pure and faultless, is this: take care of the widows in their distress.  James 1:27

Proceeds from your Balcony Women purchase will go to supporting two widow dinners and our widow fellowship groups.

Interested in making a tax deductible donation?  Please email us at melissa@balconywomen.com for details.

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WIDOW DINNERS                                                  


Beautiful Masterpiece 

Thursday, February 13th 2020 

Asbury United Methodist Church, Tulsa, OK
Community Life Center (CLC)
6767 South Mingo Road, Tulsa, OK 74133

Guest Speakers - Comedian, Melissa Williams 

Melissa is a motivational speaker and comedian who loves making others crack up and fall in love with Jesus all over again.  She has always had a way with telling stories but when Jesus entered her life, it became very evident that Jesus gave her a gift.  She became a Christian at 33 years old and hasn't stopped pursuing Him since.

Musical Guest - harpist, Linda Paul

Linda has been Principal Harpist with five symphonic orchestras in the Southwest Region of the US.  She toured with the New Christy Minstrels Touring Show in the 80's, and had performed with the original cast of the New Christy Minstrels in several performances in the last ten years.  An acclaimed Master Teacher and Workshop Director, Linda has been featured at many Harp Conferences around the Us, including Harp in Worship.

RSVP Monday, January 13th - Friday, February 7th to Melissa@balconywomen.com or 918.640.7573.  (Please include first name, last name, and email address of all guests you are registering.)

Lemonade & Laughter                                                       

Thursday, July 16th 2020 

Asbury United Methodist Church, Tulsa, OK
Community Life Center (CLC)
6767 South Mingo Road, Tulsa, OK 74133

Guest Speakers - TBA

Musical Guest - vocalist, Dana Drummond

Check back in June 2020 for RSVP instructions.

$10 donation per person at door as able


We would love for you to join us!  We meet each month at Asbury United Methodist Church, 6767 South Mingo Road, Tulsa, OK 74133.  

Contact Melissa Phenicie at melissa@balconywomen.com if you wish to attend.

3rd Monday of each month
Room 1504

4th Wednesday of each month
Room 2201/2301

The Bible commands us to “plead for the widow”.  Too often, the perception is that once a funeral is over and a widow begins to appear to have regained normality in her life no need exists for her care.  Nothing can be further from the truth.  Being a widow does not have to mean being alone.

Widows are hurting deeply one year, two years and even ten years plus.  In our Widow Fellowship Groups, there is no directing, counseling, steering toward a predetermined goal, no manipulation, no fixing — just a complete reliance on God to work.

“No one can comfort a widow like another widow. When we see another woman enter this experience…we want to comfort her.” - Miriam Neff

Questions?  Visit our Get In Touch page.