Widow Events


Religion that God our Father finds pure and faultless, is this: take care of the widows in their distress.  James 1:27


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Lemonade & Laughter Summer Dinner

Thursday, July 15, 2021


Asbury United Methodist Church, Tulsa, OK
Community Life Center (CLC)
6767 South Mingo Road, Tulsa, OK 74133

Speaker - Jennifer Sands, Christian Author and Speaker

Musical Guest - TBD

Check back in June 2021 for RSVP instructions.

$10 donation per person at door as able



We would love for you to join us!  We meet each month at Asbury United Methodist Church, 6767 South Mingo Road, Tulsa, OK 74133.  

Contact Melissa Phenicie at melissa@balconywomen.com if you have any questions or wish to attend.

3rd Monday of each month
Room 2818

4th Wednesday of each month
Room 2821

We will NOT meet at the church on June 21st.  The church is booked for VBS.

Due to Covid-19, we will be adhering to the following:

  • Everyone will need to use the South entrance when entering and exiting the building.
  • Everyone must wear a mask and social distance.  
  • No food may be served.
  • Everyone must sign the group roster when they arrive in the classroom.
  • The room number is subject to change prior to the scheduled meeting. Please check your email prior to the meeting for any room change updates.  You can always text me, Melissa, if you can't find the room (918.640.7573).



The Bible commands us to “plead for the widow”.  Too often, the perception is that once a funeral is over and a widow begins to appear to have regained normality in her life no need exists for her care.  Nothing can be further from the truth.  Being a widow does not have to mean being alone.

Widows are hurting deeply one year, two years and even ten years plus.  In our Widow Fellowship Groups, there is no directing, counseling, steering toward a predetermined goal, no manipulation, no fixing — just a complete reliance on God to work.

“No one can comfort a widow like another widow. When we see another woman enter this experience…we want to comfort her.” - Miriam Neff

Questions?  Visit our Get In Touch page.