Widow Events


Religion that God our Father finds pure and faultless, is this: take care of the widows in their distress.  James 1:27


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Beautiful Masterpiece Valentine's Dinner

Thursday, February 10, 2022


Asbury United Methodist Church, Tulsa, OK
Community Life Center (CLC)
6767 South Mingo Road, Tulsa, OK 74133

Special Musical Guest - Kevin Peters

Special Guest - Lisa Bain Ministries

We are excited to welcome back our Balcony Women friend Lisa Bain.  Lisa will be delivering a message of transformation from her newly released book, It's Better Out Here: Stepping Out of Your Brokenness into Purpose.

"Lisa Bain challenges us to look around and ask if we are living inside a dark, narrow box, broken and too scared to step out. We may be comfortable in our box, but what if we're missing a life filled with freedom and purpose? Can embracing brokenness move us toward healing?"  

You're not going to want to miss being inspired by her 8 steps to transformation!

Check out Lisa's NEW ministry website at Lisabain.com and like her NEW Facebook page at facebook.com/lisabainministries.

RSVP by Thursday, February 3rd.
918.640.7573 (call or text)

Seating is Limited.

We will host tables of 6.  All guests will have assigned tables so there will be no need to arrive early and congregate in the lobby.  You will have your table assignment prior to the event.  We will do our best to accommodate your seating requests.

If you wish to sit with your friends, PLEASE RSVP as a group.  Have 1 person email or call in your request.  She will need to know all guest's email addresses.  Please remember this is an event for widows.  As much as we would love for all your friends to join us, this is a night dedicated to our widow community.

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Lemonade & Laughter Summer Dinner

Thursday, July 14, 2022


Asbury United Methodist Church, Tulsa, OK
Community Life Center (CLC)
6767 South Mingo Road, Tulsa, OK 74133

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We would love for you to join us!  We meet each month at Asbury United Methodist Church, 6767 South Mingo Road, Tulsa, OK 74133.  

Contact Melissa Phenicie at melissa@balconywomen.com if you have any questions or wish to attend.

3rd Monday of each month
Room 2818

4th Wednesday of each month
Room 2301 

You can always text Melissa at 918.640.7573 if you can't find the room.

Please note we will NOT be meeting Monday, February 21st.  Asbury will be closed due to President's Day.



The Bible commands us to “plead for the widow”.  Too often, the perception is that once a funeral is over and a widow begins to appear to have regained normality in her life no need exists for her care.  Nothing can be further from the truth.  Being a widow does not have to mean being alone.

Widows are hurting deeply one year, two years and even ten years plus.  In our Widow Fellowship Groups, there is no directing, counseling, steering toward a predetermined goal, no manipulation, no fixing — just a complete reliance on God to work.

“No one can comfort a widow like another widow. When we see another woman enter this experience…we want to comfort her.” - Miriam Neff

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