Widow Events

 

Religion that God our Father finds pure and faultless, is this: take care of the widows in their distress.  James 1:27

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2026 WIDOW DINNER EVENTS

- see photos from past events in our photo gallery below -                               

Be YOU tiful Masterpiece

Thursday, January 29th
Lunch 11:00am - 1:00pm
Dinner 5:30pm - 7:30pm                                                                           

Asbury Church, Tulsa, OK
Community Life Center (CLC)
6767 South Mingo Road, Tulsa, OK 74133

                                                                                  
RSVP for LUNCH:

RSVP for DINNER:
A special THANK YOU to our amazing Balcony Woman friend Lisa Bain Ministries for organizing our musical guest and guest speaker.  



Musical Guest: Mike Wilson is a Tulsa native who has appeared on recordings with Grammy award winning artists.                                                                    





 
Guest Speaker: Kim Spence Mullen - Kim Spence Mullen is a seasoned leader, speaker, and storyteller whose life’s work has centered on encouraging women to see their lives from God’s perspective and step confidently into what He is doing next. With decades of experience in women’s ministry, leadership development, and faith-based media, Kim brings both depth and relatability to her message, offering wisdom shaped by real life, loss, and God’s redeeming grace.



Kim will share a heartfelt message titled “Your Next Chapter Starts with One Brave Yes.” Drawing from Scripture, personal experience, and the stories of women in the Bible whose lives were transformed when grace lifted them into purpose, Kim invites women to release fear, trust God’s timing, and recognize that obedience often begins long before the whole picture is clear. Her message is especially meaningful for women navigating transition, change, or uncertainty, reminding them that God is always at work, even in the in-between seasons.
                                                                                                         
Direct event questions to:  Melissa@balconywomen.com

 

WIDOW FELLOWSHIP GROUP

REMINDER!!  WE WILL NOT MEET IN JANUARY OR JULY.  DINNER EVENTS SERVE AS OUR MONTHLY MEETING.

We would love for you to join us!  We meet each month at Asbury Church, 6767 South Mingo Road, Tulsa, OK 74133.  If you attend our small groups and wish to join our GroupMe, please contact Melissa Phenicie for the invitation link.  We use the GroupMe App to communicate with our group.

Contact Melissa Phenicie at melissa@balconywomen.com if you have any questions or wish to attend.

3rd Monday of each month
1-2PM
Room 2821 

You can always text Melissa at 918.640.7573 if you can't find the room. 

WIDOW EVENT PHOTO GALLERY LINKS:

Lemonade & Laughter 2025

Valentine's 2025

Lemonade & Laughter 2024

Valentine's 2024

Lemonade & Laughter 2023

Valentine's 2023

Lemonade & Laughter 2022

Valentine's 2022

Lemonade & Laughter 2021

Valentine's 2021

Lemonade & Laughter 2020

Valentine's 2020

Lemonade & Laughter 2019

Valentine's 2019

Lemonade & Laughter 2018

Valentine's 2018

Lemonade & Laughter 2017

 

WIDOW DINNER VIDEO TESTIMONY 

The Bible commands us to “plead for the widow”.  Too often, the perception is that once a funeral is over and a widow begins to appear to have regained normality in her life no need exists for her care.  Nothing can be further from the truth.  Being a widow does not have to mean being alone.

Widows are hurting deeply one year, two years and even ten years plus.  In our Widow Fellowship Groups, there is no directing, counseling, steering toward a predetermined goal, no manipulation, no fixing — just a complete reliance on God to work.

“No one can comfort a widow like another widow. When we see another woman enter this experience…we want to comfort her.” - Miriam Neff

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Questions?  Visit our Get In Touch page.